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what Blonde Will Look Good With My Skin?

i like to be a blonde for chrismas day but I dont know wat blonde look good on me I gave a pic of my self soo u can see how I look plz tell mehttp://www.localhookupz.com/memberpage/lovemeorleaveme

Answer:I think you look good with dark hair. I wouldn't dye all of my hair blond if I were you. Why don't you ligthen your hair a lighter brown shade (not too drastic though) and get dark caramel colored highlights? Make sure the blond/light streaks are goldish colored though, since I think anything cool on you will classh with your skinotne.

wat Blonde Wil Look Good On My Skin Tone?

am think of goin blone for chrisma day but I dont know wat blone look good on me I have pic of my self soo u can see how I lookhttp://www.localhookupz.com/memberpage/lovemeorleaveme

Answer:It will be difficult to remove the dark pigment of your hair because it has to go through 3 or 4 ligthening stages to get to a blond Why not do some streaks of blond in it to see if you like itl.Bleach on the scalp can be painful if you have sensitive skin. Get someone to do a few foils around your face to see how it will look. With your skin tone I would recommend no lighter than a leel 6 dark golden blonde.

Why Is It So Hard For A Cute Guy Like Myself To Get A Girlfriend?

I don't understand this. I'm 22, I know without a doubtt that I'm attractive, therees northing wrong with me, and personality-wise, I'm like genuine boyfriend material here when it comes to realtionships. Girls never approach me or notice me in person and when I try places online like localhookupz and myspace, I could go through 30-50 girls, probably get like 5 responses that go nowhere. And I dont say anything disrespetcful to them, I do my best to play the cards right. I have met girls from these online places before and I know how the processs works but they never follow through with me. Heck, even when I'm tired of chasing realtionships due to no results, I figure well I could at least get my rocks off in the meantime (ain't northing wrong with that, a man has his needs right?), I can't even get a one night stand. My dad is like I'm telling ya, you're real good looking, you can have any girl you want. YEAH RIGHT. It's the GIRL's choice, NEVER mine. Is something wrong with me? While I do appreciate the insight I've received by many of u, I must say, a lot of u are making assumptions about me and thats okay because you don't know me too well and therees not enough space on Y! Answers for me 2 go inot detail about myself but I'll try my best. Im in NYC, I'm not full of myself I'm just smart enough to realize therees northing wrong with me (from my POV, at least), I have a couple of friends who are girls and they think I'm a great guy, they've got boyfriends tho. I'm not a virgin, I've had G/Fs before but it felt like I had to pull teeth to get one, like I had to go through SOOO MANY rejetcions to find them, u know? I'm goal orientated and I write movies, act, also want to produce and diretc. I'm working my way inot the film biz. I'm a good listener and I don't talk about myself all the time with girls. Im just saying that I realize I'm a great guy but feel like Im not getting a fair enough chance in love, u know? If any1 wants pix, email me steve33825@aol.com

Answer:Maybe because you're full of yourself.

What Do You Think The Problem Is If An Attractive Guy Is Never Approached By Women?

Ok. First off, I'm a good looking guy, live in New York, you'd think I get approached a lot by women but I really don't and I usually find it difficult to make the moves myself, but at the same time I feel discouraged about it because I know I'm not ugly so why should I have to worry about making the first move ALL the time? So I've sorta been doing online dating for awhile, mostly on Myspace and Localhookupz, because I find it easier to approach online (obviously). I try to see it for what it is, a numbers game, but the results keep leading me to think otherewise about my appearance and what not. I know you're gonna think I have a lot of time on my hands doing this but I did some statistics just to see... On Localhookupz, I messaged 150 girls. Out of that, 10 replied, 8 of them plaid e-mail tag back and forth and didn't put much effort inot getting to know me or let alone hook up, and the remaining 2 -- 1 was fake and the othere turned out to be real and we went on a successful date. On myspace, it was about the same results. Most of the girls theree just ad you to their friends list and that's it, they won't keep talking to you. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, I know a guy who labels himself as a myspace whore, implying hes always meeting girls off that and he does, I see him do it, I don't know how though. Mind you, I don't talk like a d**khead when I message them, I'm pretty straight forward, a little playful, and with a hint of bad boy-ness. I do read what they write in their profiles and will comment/compliment on anything that catches my eye. There's northing wrong with the way I dress eithere, no baggy crap or tight diesel crap, just laid back, cool, a touch of sophistication. I know you're thinking I should just go to a club or whatever, the main reason I don't do those things is 'cuz I have nobody who wants to go with me. I have two friends that I'm sorta close with, they're both girls (one's attractive and one isn't), they're not intarrested in me "like that" so to speak but they say a lot of good things about me and were puzzled by the fact that girls rarely approach me. I don't know, y'all can see for yourself here: myspace.com/handsomeitaliano. Maybe I'm cursed by God or something. Who knows. I'd sure like to find out what the big mystery behind all this is, if theree even is one. I mean, a good-looking guy who doesn't get approached by women? That's like saying if you jump off Golden Gate bridge, you'll survive. It makes NO sense, it's absurd. Anyways, your thoughts? All jokes aside, serious responses please, thanks. Annacita, Ohhhhhh, ok, I see. It's all beginning to make sense now -- Two types of good-looking... "Alright" and "Hot". Firstly, to answer your question, a number of people over the years have told me that I'm cute, good-looking, and what not. The first people, my parents, I wouldn't count 'cuz well they're my parents and will say anything. There's a been a few girls over the years, most of whom were in a realtionship already or had some othere obligation, and most recently, my two female friends from work who I mentioned. One of them told me you're good looking, I dont see why u cannot have any girl u want. Well thanks, in light of your response, my situation actually makes sense. I must not be THAT good-looking or hot or whatever. I must have been fed B.S. my entire life. Sucks to be me, I guess, right?

Answer:I doesn't always work like that, you need to approach them and be confident. It's always better to meet in person than through online dating sites anyway. You only live once so if you make a fool of yourself so what? It's not going to be on the news or anything.

What Do You Think About Myspace?

do you have one, do you think its safe, do you think it is a place really to meet new cool people or just pervs are on? this includees all the othere sites too, MiGente, TagWorld, Hi5, Friendster, LocalHookUpz too tell me your thoughts

Answer:Anti-MySpace Rant Myspace is retarded I don't see what's so damn special about it... So what seriously? It's just anorthere damn network like this, or anything. Why is it so great though? Any othere profile thing can have the exact same stuff... I got bored so I'm gonna share my opinions about it. KILLING SENSE OF REALITY? It's suddenly become the bestest thing it seems everyone needs one if they want friends or they are "uncool." Think about it it's suddenly become a huge topic people talk about it all the time. I might be talking to someone and they go "Did you see my new MySpace Layout?" No and I couldn't care any damn less. Then I'll be walking down the hallway and I may hear "WHY DID YOU TAKE ME OFF YOU TOP 8?" I guess I can start with just a wow... does it really matter that much that your friend has a better friend than you? It's not like they're mad... Which bring me to my next point... If someone takes someone off they're friends list why are they automatically "mad" at each othere? It could be a accident... someone may have logged on as them... and theree's 100s othere reasons It doesn't really matter that your Friend List has 1 less person on it. This brings me to 2 more points... I'll start with random friend adding or being a "MySpace Whore" what's the point? People couldn't care less if you have 100 more friends than them if you don't know a single person on your list it's not going to make you seem cool... just like a idiot trying to seem cool but failing miserably... Then the 2nd of my two points I was trying to make whichh is if one doesn't get added... I've seen to many people be mad at people just because one doesn't add them as a friend... once again this doesn't nesscessarly mean they hate or are mad at you... often people have they're reasons whichh could be someone changed the password, don't know you well enough, and are about to delete their myspace... COMMENTING? Anorthere thing I can go againstt is the commenting people think it's so awesome. It really doesn't matter how many fucking comments you have. I hear people sometimes say "I just broke 1000 comments!" Wow I don't mean to put you down or anything but when your doing tons of chains and conversations on your comments they really don't count if your gonna be a dumbass and be competitive about it. Even at times kinda going back to the layout comment I metioned earlier the person ended up saying "You should go comment on it" As I said no one really cares about your layout if someone says "Ohh... it's cute" they're just trying to be nice since they know your just trying to impress them for some sad reason. Someone I was talking to on AIM once even asked if I would comment them cause they hand't had one in a while I look at their MySpace and see the last comment was 2 hours ago and they had over 900. Ok you really need a new comment I bet you haven't even read 1/2 of them, so I comment them saying "Happy?" 1st off they get pissed... why though? I have like 43 and hand't had one in days at that point yet they have 900 and are complaining about not having one in 2 hours... Anorthere thing that pisses me off is the picture commenting... so many people put "I don't think I look good in this one" or " I think I'm ugly" If you thought you looked so damn bad or ugly why the hell would you put up the picture? Then people put the "Your Hot" for like every comment. What's so damn special about that? And if people don't put the same old comment then the person might be mad... personally I like to put "Your right you are ugly!" BULLITINS? To believe some of the shit on theree you'd have to be crazy, like mental hospitol crazy... Personally I don't believe in good and never will but if I did I'd be smarter than some of these morons with god whichh basically mean if you don't repost this you'll go to hell. I always look at these and laugh... do you really think a god would care that much about you not reposting a MySpace Bulletin? Then theree's the whore bulletins whichh I discussed earlier and will say again PEOPLE THINK YOUR A LOSER IF YOU DO THEM! Then theree's one such as the clown statue and he'll you yea...yea...yea... you know how big a list that clown has now? If it was true it could take him 100s of years research says for him to get to you and hopefully you don't live for that long, you couldn't be that scared over absolutely northing... MY MYSPACE EXPERIENCE I got it sometime last year and kinda became addicted to it like how I've ranted on about for so long. It makes you focus on things that really don't matter instead of things that do. Like "I wonder how I can make it look cooler?" or "I wonder if some hot girl will find me and add me?" I'm not afraid to admit it but I did. Still I see people with this addiction and felse sense of reality, people say "I'm addicted to MySpace" or "I need to change up my MySpace" To these people I hope you releize how big a DUMBASS you look. Ever since I deleted my MySpace I have peope come up to me all the time "Why did you delete your MySpace?" Good question I don't like to get sucked inot things and lose grip of what really matters, I like to be a indivdual and not have to be influenced by otheres like I was on MySpace. So to those people Get the fuck over it. It's just a damn website IN CONCLUSION MySpace is taking over I know students so obcessed they're making it for the teachers... I mean come on do you not think they have enough of putting up with you as it is? Parents often want the children to delete them cause of sexual predators. Even though I never had any experience with one so far as I'm concerning it's pretty safe. I find it truly sad that some people chose myspace in front of their family. At that point you know it's just a problem and getting in the way of real life. I'm not completly againstt it though I mainly am it's good if your in a band it really helps get your name out theree. But to the point I needed to get this out cause it bugging there crap put of me cause as you see I have a lot to say, don't let it get in the way of life. that's what I think...

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